Fight Club Series Session 7

15 And if it seems evil to you to serve the Lord, choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the River, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you dwell. But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”

Isaiah 59:19 KJV

19 So shall they fear the name of the LORD from the west, and his glory from the rising of the sun. When the enemy shall come in like a flood, the Spirit of the LORD shall lift up a standard against him.

Holding A Standard: Part #2

I am giving 3 Super-bowl Standards.... 1 for married, 1 for Singles and 1 for everyone.

1st: Standard: Only One Of Us Can lead the family

who will that be?

does you agree to remain in your lane while i lead?

do you have IT..

With Respect of Time, I am only going to touch on what is the IT that men need to lead. 4th Sunday Lady M is going to teach the ladies the IT they need to lead a family.

Ask 3 brothers do you got IT

Priest:

Prophet:

King:

Priest: (a) handle the offerings unto God on behalf of his family. (b) Priest intercede for his family daily (c) Priest Pastor his wife & family at home.

Prophet: (a) Sees and set atmospheres (b) Prophets run off Demonic spirits in the home, on the children and possibly spirits effecting his wife.

1 Peter 3:7 NLT

7 In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God’s gift of new life. Treat her as you should so your prayers will not be hindered.

Husband—i.e., the “house-band,” connecting and keeping together the whole family.

HUSBAND The husband is the head of the home (Ephesians 5)—whether he accepts the post or not. God has appointed him to it. Headship in the home is to emulate the headship of Jesus in the church (cf. Ephesians 1:22; 5:22ff.). It is not a tyrannical headship, but rather a concerned, loving headship. It is to be a blessing to all. Out of love, the husband is to be willing to die for his wife, as Christ died for His bride, the church.

Husbandman: Farmer- he tends to a field. He has to pull the weeds, deal with manure and produce harvest in the worst conditions.

He must handle the garden with delicate hands because she’s weaker & she beautiful to look at, but like a ROSE if you grab or handle her wrong you going to get pricked…

King: The most powerful of them all, called to set in order, to establish, to grow the kingdom with new territory.

But you can’t be king till your Priest & Prophet

No Matter what spirit that abides in your home

IT requires the King to Kill it!!

2nd Standard: We Don’t Until We Say I DO

Galatians 5:19–21 KJV

19 Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, 20 Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, 21 Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.

Having Sexual Relations with someone you are not married to is fornication..

Having Sexual Relations with someone married or divorced is Adultery...

Galatians 5:19-21 tells us what Rob’s Christians of their inheritance

Galatians 5:19–21 NCV

19 The wrong things the sinful self does are clear: being sexually unfaithful, not being pure, taking part in sexual sins, 20 worshiping gods, doing witchcraft, hating, making trouble, being jealous, being angry, being selfish, making people angry with each other, causing divisions among people, 21 feeling envy, being drunk, having wild and wasteful parties, and doing other things like these. I warn you now as I warned you before: Those who do these things will not inherit God’s kingdom.

Tell Your Story: Aunt Martha

Standard #3 Family Is Family.....................

Us, Ours, We… (are in your vocabulary)

His kids, her Car, His money… Nope

We ain’t step father, step mother, step sister & step brother… We family…

Many marriages fail because they will not share..

And I get it, A sista who has been holding down the house alone with her kids and surviving is going to be reluctant in letting a man come and just start telling her kids what to do..

Some one Say standard:

Thats why while y’all are dating the kids should be dating them too, and make sure the approve of the marriage. If not they are going to raise hell in the family.

I asked my 8 year Old Maurice would he be ok with me marrying his mother, and i also asked him why he felt that way..

I lot of marriages fail because parents don’t agree with others parenting skills.

Every family needs Both Nurture & Discipline. Femininty & Masculinity

Matthew 12:47–49 TPT

47 Then someone said, “Look, your mother and brothers are standing outside, wanting to have a word with you.” 48 But Jesus just looked at him and said, “Let me introduce you to my true mother and brothers.” 49 Then gesturing to the disciples gathered around him, he said, “Look closely, for this is my true family.

I understand that many kids have parents that they have a great relationship with, and my actually have two families.

But When a child is under the roof of husband and wife thats the family..........

don’t repeat nothing thats said in this house, Don’t let no ones opinions sway you away from the standard of your house..