Farewell Speech for David & Angela Reed
Rev. David Holwick XFirst Baptist ChurchWest Lafayette, OhioJune 25, 1989 Acts 20:17-37 A PASTOR'S DEPARTURE I. Paul's goodbye. A. Many have told me they hate goodbyes. B. I also hate goodbyes. (That's why I'm wearing my black funeral suit.) C. But if you have to do it, Paul gives a good way. II. Spirit moves me to new city. 20:22 A. Potential in NJ unknown, but I feel it is God's will. 1) There will undoubtedly be obstacles. 20:23 2)West Lafayette is hard to top. B. Our ultimate task is following the Spirit & preaching gospel. III. Look back at past. A. Lifestyle. 20:18 1) You know how I lived. a) Not always an asset. b) But we have opened our lives to you. 1> You have done the same. 2) Difficulty of being a preacher. 20:19 a) Tears (I store it inside). 20:19 b) Tension: 1> Faithfulness to God. 2> Acceptance by people. B. Preaching. 20:20 1) Discuss sermon series and Bible studies. a) Sermon series: 1> John, Ephesians, Philippians, Sermon on Mount, James. b) Bible studies: 1> 1 & 2 Samuel, prophecy, Holy Spirit. 2) Tried to stick to Bible. 20:21 a) Repentance and faith in Jesus is content of gospel. b) Apply it to real life. 1> Effective? 2> Sometimes I have my doubts. 3> But many have said they've learned about Lord. 3) House to house - Bible studies. 20:20 a) Lay leadership important. b) Inter-personal challenging, not just church services. C. Focus of the preaching. 1) Innocent of blood - the necessity of the gospel. 20:26 a) Salvation proclaimed. b) Have you accepted Jesus? 2) Whole gospel - the difficulty of the gospel. 20:27 a) Hard aspects of obedience to gospel. 1> Amazed me how people were convicted by sermons. b) Some have turned away. 1> Whole gospel says it is never too late (till death). 2> Even those who have fallen away may come back. IV. Look to the future. 20:28 A. Church leaders (deacons). 20:28 1) Be on guard. 20:28 a) Don't get a loser for a pastor. 20:29 b) Watch out for false doctrine. 20:30 1> Much worldliness in our church. 2> Distortion of truth. 20:30 A> Not just sin, but half-truths. B> Easy believe-ism. c) Watch out for splits in body. 20:30 1> Keep love and unity. 2) Be shepherds. 20:28 a) Great examples of shepherds in this church. 1> Bev Marshall. A> Critical notes in margin of S.S. leader's book. 2> Howard Brown. A> Missing World Series (?) to come to church. Game went into extra innings. B> Kicking through snow banks with artificial legs to come to prayer meeting. 3> Merrill Beal. A> Push screaming and kicking into being S.S. teacher. B> Image of Apostle Paul: short, bald, bowlegged, looks like angel, then fierce. 4> Grover Taylor. A> Preacher's voice, messages backed up by integrity of life. 5> Glenna Hartsock. A> Acting out raindrops of blessing as she teaches young children. b) Shepherds must care for the sheep. 1> Love is mark of true church (Jesus). John 13:34-35 2> This church has attracted many because of love. c) Only one shepherd is leaving. B. Life is a race for all Christians. 20:24 1) We know where we are going. 2) We have gone far already. a) Physical changes in church. b) New people since we have arrived. (raise of hands) 3) We have far to go still. V. Commitment to God. 20:32 A. Only He can build up. 20:32 1) He can be trusted to hold us till the end. Phil 1:6 2) He has an inheritance waiting for us. 20:32 B. Give, rather than receive (Jesus). 20:35 1) Help the weak. a) Virgil Lutgen, Tom Daugherty, other shut-ins. VI. Tearful goodbye. A. Future Fellowship. 1) Paul thought it was his last visit. 20:25 a) Wrong according to pastorals? (2 Timothy 1:18) 2) We intend to visit again. a) (Once things settle down.) B. We are attached to this life, though heaven is real. 1) Other dear Christians have already said their goodbyes. 2) Personal attachment: a) Grew up without sense of community. b) West Lafayette is only place I have lived where I was made to feel I belonged. c) This church has treated me as family. C. End with prayer and embraces.
A Pastor's Heart
Even in the midst of his campaign for reform, Hus never forgot the faithful flock back home.
Bruce L. Shelley
Like Paul at Miletus, Jan Hus bid a tender farewell to his congregation at Bethlehem Chapel as he departed for Constance.
"Faithful and dear friends," he said, "you know that for a long time I have faithfully labored among you, preaching to you the Word of God without heresy or errors. Your salvation was, is now, and shall remain my desire until my death."
Hus knew he might never return to Prague. But if not, "we shall, of course, meet one another in the heavenly joy."
We think of him as "Jan Hus, the martyr." But before that, he was Jan Hus, the pastor—passionate about reform yet gentle toward his flock.
So this is goodbye, David.
We'll miss you.
One way or another, you've had quite an impact on this place.
And you'll leave quite a gap here.
But we won't have any shortage of memories.
We’ll remember you for being genuine.
We’ll remember you for being caring.
And if we're honest, we'll also remember you for being in love with his Fords almost as much as with our young people..
Most of all, though, we'll remember you for being a great person to have around.
Whatever work you choose to do, it's always m...
I have accepted a new ministry as the pastor at the Mission Hills United Methodist Church. I'll be starting there in the beginning of March; my last Sunday at PB will be February 20. April will stay here to be the full-time pastor to the PB UMC; only I'll be going to Mission Hills. We'll continue to live in the parsonage on Vickie Drive in PB.
Usually pastoral changes in the UMC take place in July. In this case, the current pastor at Mission Hills, Sue Farley, is leaving that church to take over for a pastor and friend who is stepping down due to illness. Because of that, this move is being made "mid-year." It's a bit of a shock to me how quickly it's coming about, but the move doesn't come as a complete surprise.
Though we both love it here and I've often imagined staying at PB forever, April and I have discussed at times what the next step in our ministry might be. There are two factors that have led me to believe that serving in separate congregations is the right way for us to go, and the way that God is leading us.
The first factor is the challenge of job sharing. We're both looking forward to being able to come home in the evening and talk about our day with a supportive spouse rather than a concerned co-worker.
The second factor is in my calling and development as a pastor. Serving at Pacific Beach has given both April and me the opportunity to develop our skills and abilities as pastors. We've reached the point where we both feel ready to accept the responsibility of being the primary leader and pastor for a congregation. I'm convinced that we'll best be able to use our gifts in God's service by being pastors to separate congregations.
It's hard to imagine leaving PB UMC. We've done many great things together; we've engaged in many significant ministries; we've worked hard and made this a beautiful place; I've felt joy and sadness when I've shared important life experiences with many of you; I've had lots of fun; in short, I've come to love this church.
I'm not exactly sure what being the pastor's spouse here will mean--that's a new role for me. But I do know that I won't disappear. I'm glad that, with April continuing to be the pastor here, I'll have a good reason to come and enjoy special programs and social events.
I leave this church in a position of growth and development, and I know that it will continue to thrive and do great things in ministry. So it's with hope and anticipation that I look to the future of this church and to the future of my ministry in Mission Hills.
Paul provides appropriate closing words: "Finally, brothers and sisters: Good-bye. Aim for perfection, be of one mind, live in peace. And may the God of love and peace be with you." (2 Corinthians 13:11)
|Bethel Church bids farewell to our beloved Senior Pastor Don and Loretta Steiger|
|The Official Board of Bethel Church would like to express our heartfelt appreciation for an incredible job done in the last four years. What a wonderful blessing both Pastor and Loretta have been as leaders and examples. It has been both refreshing and exciting to serve on the board with a Pastor that has both sound character and Godly leadership. We will miss both of them greatly.Our prayers and hope is that they will continue to be blessed and led by the Holy Spirit as they live out Gods plan for the rest of their lives. |
With Gods Blessings,
The Official Board of Bethel Church
|Gina and I have so enjoyed our relationship with Pastor and Loretta. Our philosophy of worship and ministry has been a wonderful "fit". Their enthusiasm and support of our efforts has pulled the best out of us. Beyond that, there is no way we can express the feelings of love and nurture they have provided. Our staff is unified and optimistic and that is due in large measure to the servant leadership exemplified by both Pastor and Loretta. They will be greatly missed...Pastor Jon Lugo|
|"There are not enough words to express our gratitude for the exemplary friendship and leadership of Pastor and Loretta."|
A Moment in Time
By Dr. Charles Self
For a moment in time
You offered faith sublime
Nurturing a family to rest
Preparing for our next quest.
For a season all too brief
You brought a sweet relief
From clichés and images
We enjoyed prayers and praises.
For this special era
You modeled a joyful aura
A life of private holiness
And team-building gentleness.
In our time together
We had events to weather
Twin Towers may fall
But you lead us to the Lord of all.
You said farewell to many saints
Listened patiently to all complaints
Always responding with grace
You made our church a greater place.
Good seeds of faith and hope
Have been watered with love
Now we nourish the new growth
With help from Above.
A moment is time
Our future defined
Refreshed by the Giver of Life
We move forward without strife.
|"We have been blessed beyond measure because of Pastor and Loretta Steiger."|
|Bethel Church has grown and been truly blessed under the leadership of Pastor Don Steiger. Pastor Don and Loretta have a way of making everyone, friends and visitors alike, feel welcome and part of our church family. We learned much through Pastor's faithful exposition of the Word of God and their consistent example of Christ-like character. We will truly miss having them with us in the day to day working of the church but we rest in God's peace knowing that as they go out in obedience, we are kept in God's perfect will. Thank you, Pastor for your teachings, wise counsel, acceptance, warmth, friendship, integrity and daily modeling Christ. Thank you, Loretta, for your wonderful teachings, your friendship, humor, practical spirituality and your authenticity. You have shown us what a godly and happy marriage looks like. We have all been immeasurably enriched through walking with you over these past few years. What you have sown in us has grown and borne godly fruit. We release you from the work at Bethel Church but not from our hearts. You will reside in our affections and always be welcome here. May you be Blessed of God and may He always guide your steps. With Love and deepest thanks, |
Pastor Art & Kay Gorman
|"I've seen their boundless wisdom, endless knowledge, tireless energy, total dedication and great humor, but the trait that impressed me most is their love for others."|
|There are not enough words to express our gratitude for the exemplary friendship and leadership of Pastor and Loretta. The mutually-enriching season we have enjoyed renews our hope that God can do anything through people willing to walk in faith, hope and love.Their humility and humor, reverence for God and respect for colleagues is forever branded upon our hearts. They made ministry fun as well as a call to faithfulness!We have been fed well in the word, led well by example and left with a legacy of life and love we will build upon until Jesus comes.Thank you Pastor and Loretta for the great season among us and for future moments of fellowship in the providence of God.You friend, Pastor Charlie Self|
|"We are so grateful that God brought Pastor and Loretta to Bethel Church! They have blessed us, encouraged us, cared for us, and loved us."|
|How can we say thanks for all the Lord's goodness in sending two of His choicest servants to shepherd the Bethel family during the past four years? Thank you, Pastor Steiger and Sister Loretta, for being servants of healing, channels of blessing, chosen instruments to work out the Master Designer's plan for our wonderful church family. Your faithfulness, devotion, dedication, enthusiasm and humility will long motivate us all to strive for higher heights and deeper depths in the love of Jesus and in service one to another and to our community. We pray God's richest blessings upon your future ministry and your beautiful family in Colorado Springs.Love and prayers from Doris Johnson and Family, San Jose and Brazil|
|"Pastor Steiger and Loretta are the best things that ever happened to Bethel Church."|
|What Pastor Steiger and Loretta have meant to us...This is the one and only time I wish we could actually “clone” someone. You have been such an inspiration to our family. When we were sick, you visited us. When we needed prayer, you agreed with us. (You were praying for us even when we didn't know it.) Your love for each ministry at Bethel Church is so evident. (One of Melinda's favorite memories is singing in the choir. I had the privilege to watch the excitement in your faces week after week, it was like you were never tired of hearing us sing.) Your care and concern for the young and old never differed; you truly heard the voice of God and you took the time to listen and follow His leading. Your teaching was applicable to our every day lives, even our young people enjoyed to hear you speak. You have both set an example for us to follow. Your lives are so humble because of God's grace and that is why you walk with such great integrity. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for truly being a shepherd to Bethel Church and our families!Melinda Smith|
|"They made ministry fun as well as a call to faithfulness!"|
|Pastor and Loretta have been superior examples of love, dedication, character, wisdom, integrity, and all that reflects genuine lives filled and led by the Holy Spirit and God's Word. We have all been very blessed by their leadership, example, teaching, prayer, and friendship. They have brought unity and a strong sense of family to the church and to the staff, and they have had a great influence in our lives. Pastor and Loretta, there are so many great memories that we will hold on to, and we are so thankful that you were the ones to dedicate our children, Nathan and Janelle. Your friendship, warmth, encouragement, humor, and humility have been so endearing. We will miss you dearly. Love, Pastor Harold & Brigitta|
|I've seen their boundless wisdom, endless knowledge, tireless energy, total dedication and great humor, but the trait that impressed me most is their love for others. Although it is difficult to do with such a large church body, they have drawn us together as one big family because they both accept everyone as they are. As “shepherds” of the church body they care about each one in their flock. We are truly blessed to have them as part of the Bethel family and I'll miss them both more than I can describe. Love to you both, |
|Pastor Steiger and Loretta are the best things that ever happened to Bethel Church. They have helped us to grow in the Word, in integrity, and in loving one another. Pastor Steiger is the same humble, loving man during the week that you see on Sunday mornings. We will truly miss them both. Dona Lupo|
|Thank you Pastor and Loretta for your love and wonderful memories!|
|We are so grateful that God brought Pastor and Loretta to Bethel Church! They have blessed us, encouraged us, cared for us, and loved us. Their gentle example of Christ's nurturing love for the church has brought us strength, hope and wholeness. We treasure the times we have shared with them and know beyond a shadow of a doubt that God strategically brought them to us when we needed them most. Thank you, Pastor and Loretta, for your love, faithfulness, and commitment to the body of Christ at Bethel Church. We have been richly blessed because of you and we will miss you tremendously!Sheryl Ferreira|