D4 08 Jn 11 17 44 The Loss of a Friend LLBC By Max Lucado CKV
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Jesus knew what was going on with Lazarus and was in control each step of the way. In the same way, God is in total control of YOUR life.
Even in the midst of their pain, Martha and Mary trusted in Jesus. Regardless of what comes our way, We too can trust in God’s goodness.
We should be ready to give comfort to one another and to receive comfort.
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The Loss of a Friend
Main Point
Now when Jesus came, he found that Lazarus had already been in the tomb four days. Bethany was near Jerusalem, about two miles off, and many of the Jews had come to Martha and Mary to console them concerning their brother. So when Martha heard that Jesus was coming, she went and met him, but Mary remained seated in the house. Martha said to Jesus, “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died. But even now I know that whatever you ask from God, God will give you.” Jesus said to her, “Your brother will rise again.” Martha said to him, “I know that he will rise again in the resurrection on the last day.” Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live, and everyone who lives and believes in me shall never die. Do you believe this?” She said to him, “Yes, Lord; I believe that you are the Christ, the Son of God, who is coming into the world.” When she had said this, she went and called her sister Mary, saying in private, “The Teacher is here and is calling for you.” And when she heard it, she rose quickly and went to him. Now Jesus had not yet come into the village, but was still in the place where Martha had met him. When the Jews who were with her in the house, consoling her, saw Mary rise quickly and go out, they followed her, supposing that she was going to the tomb to weep there. Now when Mary came to where Jesus was and saw him, she fell at his feet, saying to him, “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.” When Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who had come with her also weeping, he was deeply moved in his spirit and greatly troubled. And he said, “Where have you laid him?” They said to him, “Lord, come and see.” Jesus wept. So the Jews said, “See how he loved him!” But some of them said, “Could not he who opened the eyes of the blind man also have kept this man from dying?” Then Jesus, deeply moved again, came to the tomb. It was a cave, and a stone lay against it. Jesus said, “Take away the stone.” Martha, the sister of the dead man, said to him, “Lord, by this time there will be an odor, for he has been dead four days.” Jesus said to her, “Did I not tell you that if you believed you would see the glory of God?” So they took away the stone. And Jesus lifted up his eyes and said, “Father, I thank you that you have heard me. I knew that you always hear me, but I said this on account of the people standing around, that they may believe that you sent me.” When he had said these things, he cried out with a loud voice, “Lazarus, come out.” The man who had died came out, his hands and feet bound with linen strips, and his face wrapped with a cloth. Jesus said to them, “Unbind him, and let him go.”
Now when Jesus came, he found that Lazarus had already been in the tomb four days. Bethany was near Jerusalem, about two miles off, and many of the Jews had come to Martha and Mary to console them concerning their brother. So when Martha heard that Jesus was coming, she went and met him, but Mary remained seated in the house. Martha said to Jesus, “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died. But even now I know that whatever you ask from God, God will give you.” Jesus said to her, “Your brother will rise again.” Martha said to him, “I know that he will rise again in the resurrection on the last day.” Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live, and everyone who lives and believes in me shall never die. Do you believe this?” She said to him, “Yes, Lord; I believe that you are the Christ, the Son of God, who is coming into the world.” When she had said this, she went and called her sister Mary, saying in private, “The Teacher is here and is calling for you.” And when she heard it, she rose quickly and went to him. Now Jesus had not yet come into the village, but was still in the place where Martha had met him. When the Jews who were with her in the house, consoling her, saw Mary rise quickly and go out, they followed her, supposing that she was going to the tomb to weep there. Now when Mary came to where Jesus was and saw him, she fell at his feet, saying to him, “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.” When Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who had come with her also weeping, he was deeply moved in his spirit and greatly troubled. And he said, “Where have you laid him?” They said to him, “Lord, come and see.” Jesus wept. So the Jews said, “See how he loved him!” But some of them said, “Could not he who opened the eyes of the blind man also have kept this man from dying?” Then Jesus, deeply moved again, came to the tomb. It was a cave, and a stone lay against it. Jesus said, “Take away the stone.” Martha, the sister of the dead man, said to him, “Lord, by this time there will be an odor, for he has been dead four days.” Jesus said to her, “Did I not tell you that if you believed you would see the glory of God?” So they took away the stone. And Jesus lifted up his eyes and said, “Father, I thank you that you have heard me. I knew that you always hear me, but I said this on account of the people standing around, that they may believe that you sent me.” When he had said these things, he cried out with a loud voice, “Lazarus, come out.” The man who had died came out, his hands and feet bound with linen strips, and his face wrapped with a cloth. Jesus said to them, “Unbind him, and let him go.”
Reflection
Begin your study by sharing thoughts on this question.
Question 1 Think of a time in your life when a bad experience turned out for good. How did that affect you?
Question 1 Think of a time in your life when a bad experience turned out for good. How did that affect you?
Question 2 How did Mary and Martha feel about Jesus’ late arrival?
Question 2 How did Mary and Martha feel about Jesus’ late arrival?
Both said, “If you would have been here, Lazarus would not have died.” But Martha added, “But even now I know that whatever you ask from God, God will give you.”
Question 2 To learn more about Mary and Martha’s relationship with Jesus, read Mark 14:3–9; Luke 10:38–42; and John 11:1–3; 12:1–3.
Question 2 To learn more about Mary and Martha’s relationship with Jesus, read Mark 14:3–9; Luke 10:38–42; and John 11:1–3; 12:1–3.
And while he was at Bethany in the house of Simon the leper, as he was reclining at table, a woman came with an alabaster flask of ointment of pure nard, very costly, and she broke the flask and poured it over his head. There were some who said to themselves indignantly, “Why was the ointment wasted like that? For this ointment could have been sold for more than three hundred denarii and given to the poor.” And they scolded her. But Jesus said, “Leave her alone. Why do you trouble her? She has done a beautiful thing to me. For you always have the poor with you, and whenever you want, you can do good for them. But you will not always have me. She has done what she could; she has anointed my body beforehand for burial. And truly, I say to you, wherever the gospel is proclaimed in the whole world, what she has done will be told in memory of her.”
Now as they went on their way, Jesus entered a village. And a woman named Martha welcomed him into her house. And she had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet and listened to his teaching. But Martha was distracted with much serving. And she went up to him and said, “Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Tell her then to help me.” But the Lord answered her, “Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things, but one thing is necessary. Mary has chosen the good portion, which will not be taken away from her.”
Now a certain man was ill, Lazarus of Bethany, the village of Mary and her sister Martha. It was Mary who anointed the Lord with ointment and wiped his feet with her hair, whose brother Lazarus was ill. So the sisters sent to him, saying, “Lord, he whom you love is ill.”
Six days before the Passover, Jesus therefore came to Bethany, where Lazarus was, whom Jesus had raised from the dead. So they gave a dinner for him there. Martha served, and Lazarus was one of those reclining with him at table. Mary therefore took a pound of expensive ointment made from pure nard, and anointed the feet of Jesus and wiped his feet with her hair. The house was filled with the fragrance of the perfume.
Question 3 - How did Mary and Martha express their feelings?
Question 3 - How did Mary and Martha express their feelings?
They both spoke to Jesus directly, and also wept.
Question 4 - Do you think Jesus’ words to Martha were reassuring to her? Why or why not?
Question 4 - Do you think Jesus’ words to Martha were reassuring to her? Why or why not?
Martha did not realize what Jesus was planning. She confesses Jesus as Lord, and that whatever He asks, God will do. She believes in the resurrection. But she did not realize Jesus plans to raise Lazarus that day.
Question 5 - How did Martha communicate her belief in Jesus?
Question 5 - How did Martha communicate her belief in Jesus?
Directly.
Question 6 - How did Jesus respond to Mary, Martha, and the others’ mourning?
Question 6 - How did Jesus respond to Mary, Martha, and the others’ mourning?
Jesus wept.
Inspiration
Inspiration
Here is an uplifting thought from the Inspirational Study Bible.
Have you been there? Have you been called to stand at the thin line that separates the living from the dead? Have you lain awake at night listening to machines pumping air in and out of your lungs? Have you watched sickness corrode and atrophy the body of a friend? Have you lingered behind at the cemetery long after the others have left, gazing in disbelief at the metal casket that contains the body that contained the soul of the one you can’t believe is gone?
If so, then this canyon is not unfamiliar to you. You’ve heard the lonesome whistle of the winds. You’ve heard the painful questions. Why? What for? ricochet answerless off the canyon walls. And you’ve kicked loose rocks off the edge and listened for the sound of their crashing, which never comes.…
Standing on the edge of the canyon draws all of life into perspective. What matters and what doesn’t are easily distinguished. Above the canyon wall no one is concerned about salaries or positions. No one asks about the car you drive or what part of town you live in. As aging humans stand beside this ageless chasm, all the games and disguises of life seem sadly silly.…
It is possible that I’m addressing someone who is walking the canyon wall. Someone you love dearly has been called into the unknown and you are alone. Alone with your fears and alone with your doubts. If this is the case, please read the rest of this piece very carefully. Look carefully at the scene described in John 11.
In this scene there are two people: Martha and Jesus. And for all practical purposes they are the only two people in the universe.
Her words were full of despair. “If you had been here.… ” She stares into the Master’s face with confused eyes. She’d been strong long enough; now it hurt too badly. Lazarus was dead. Her brother was gone. And the one man who could have made a difference didn’t. He hadn’t even made it for the burial. Something about death makes us accuse God of betrayal. “If God were here there would be no death!” we claim.
You see, if God is God anywhere, he has to be God in the face of death. Pop psychology can deal with depression. Pep talks can deal with pessimism. Prosperity can handle hunger. But only God can deal with our ultimate dilemma—death. And only the God of the Bible has dared to stand on the canyon’s edge and offer an answer. He has to be God in the face of death. If not, he is not God anywhere.
Jesus wasn’t angry at Martha. Perhaps it was his patience that caused her to change her tone from frustration to earnestness. “Even now God will give you whatever you ask.”
Jesus then made one of those claims that place him either on the throne or in the asylum: “Your brother will rise again.”
Martha misunderstood. (Who wouldn’t have?) “I know he will rise again in the resurrection at the last day.”
That wasn’t what Jesus meant. Don’t miss the context of the next words. Imagine the setting: Jesus has intruded on the enemy’s turf; he’s standing in Satan’s territory, Death Canyon. His stomach turns as he smells the sulfuric stench of the ex-angel, and he winces as he hears the oppressed wails of those trapped in the prison. Satan has been here. He has violated one of God’s creations.
With his foot planted on the serpent’s head, Jesus speaks loudly enough that his words echo off the canyon walls.
“I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in me will live, even though he dies; and whoever lives and believes in me will never die” (John 11:25).
It is the hinge point in history. A chink has been found in death’s armor. The keys to the halls of hell have been claimed. The buzzards scatter and the scorpions scurry as Life confronts death—and wins! The wind stops. A cloud blocks the sun and a bird chirps in the distance while a humiliated snake slithers between the rocks and disappears into the ground.
The stage has been set for a confrontation at Calvary.
But Jesus isn’t through with Martha. With eyes locked on hers he asks the greatest question found in Scripture, a question meant as much for you and me as for Martha.
“Do you believe this?”
Wham! There it is. The bottom line. The dimension that separates Jesus from a thousand gurus and prophets who have come down the pike. The question that drives any responsible listener to absolute obedience or to total rejection of the Christian faith.
“Do you believe this?”
Let the question sink into your heart for a minute. Do you believe that a young, penniless itinerant is larger than your death? Do you truly believe that death is nothing more than an entrance ramp to a new highway?
“Do you believe this?”
Jesus didn’t pose this query as a topic for discussion in Sunday schools. It was never intended to be dealt with while basking in the stained glass sunlight or while seated on padded pews.
No. This is a canyon question. A question which makes sense only during an all-night vigil or in the stillness of smoke-filled waiting rooms. A question that makes sense when all of our props, crutches, and costumes are taken away. For then we must face ourselves as we really are: rudderless humans tailspinning toward disaster. And we are forced to see him for what he claims to be: our only hope.
(From God Came Near by Max Lucado)
Question 7 How did Martha’s response demonstrate both faith and a lack of faith?
Question 7 How did Martha’s response demonstrate both faith and a lack of faith?
She clearly believes that Jesus is the Anointed One, that whatever He asks, God will do, that Jesus is the resurrection and life and that her brother will rise at that time. She did not realize Jesus would raise her brother shortly.
Question 8 How do Jesus’ words and actions in this passage comfort you?
Question 8 How do Jesus’ words and actions in this passage comfort you?
It is clear that Jesus loved these three people, Lazarus, Martha, and Mary. Despite this love, He had to let one die and the other two mourn. Jesus had to be willing to do a hard thing to be obedient to the Father. I am glad that Jesus is willing to do the ard thing for my benefit.
Question 9 How do Jesus’ words and actions in this passage comfort you?
Question 9 How do Jesus’ words and actions in this passage comfort you?
It is clear that Jesus loved these three people, Lazarus, Martha, and Mary. Despite this love, He had to let one die and the other two mourn. Jesus had to be willing to do a hard thing to be obedient to the Father. I am glad that Jesus is willing to do the hard thing for my benefit.
Question 10 How has God helped you during a sad or disappointing time?
Question 10 How has God helped you during a sad or disappointing time?
God reminds me that He is Good. His ways and thoughts are higher than mine. For whatever God’s plans and purposes, it does not matter – what matters is that as the Father is faithful toward me, I need to be faithful towards Him and trust Him.
Question 11 Why is it important to let Christ help you through painful times?
Question 11 Why is it important to let Christ help you through painful times?
God does not always tell us the details of His plans (especially the ‘Why.’). Turning to Jesus, looking how He suffered, asking how He wants me to proceed, and still doing what He has given my hand to do while I wait for Him to give me direction.
Question 12 How can you share the pain of others who suffer?
Question 12 How can you share the pain of others who suffer?
Encourage them. Remind them of God’s kindness and goodness. That God does have a plan. Remind them they are not alone, and help them serve the Lord the best way they can while they are waiting on the Lord.
Bible passages dealing with hurts
Bible passages dealing with hurts
When he saw the crowds, he had compassion for them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.
Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.”
Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep.
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. For as we share abundantly in Christ’s sufferings, so through Christ we share abundantly in comfort too. If we are afflicted, it is for your comfort and salvation; and if we are comforted, it is for your comfort, which you experience when you patiently endure the same sufferings that we suffer. Our hope for you is unshaken, for we know that as you share in our sufferings, you will also share in our comfort.
Summary
Summary
Jesus knew what was going on with Lazarus and was in control each step of the way. In the same way, God is in total control of YOUR life.
Jesus knew what was going on with Lazarus and was in control each step of the way. In the same way, God is in total control of YOUR life.
Even in the midst of their pain, Martha and Mary trusted in Jesus. Regardless of what comes our way, We too can trust in God’s goodness.
Even in the midst of their pain, Martha and Mary trusted in Jesus. Regardless of what comes our way, We too can trust in God’s goodness.
We should be ready to give comfort to one another and to receive comfort.
We should be ready to give comfort to one another and to receive comfort.
Prayer
Prayer
Closing Song
Closing Song