Parables: The Wedding feast

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Parables are stories describing concepts: like the kingdom of God, or situations, such as why Jesus hangs out with tax collectors.
They are designed to make us think and consider what Jesus is trying to say - those that put the effort into understanding them learn how to live in a way that brings us closer to God, those that dont miss the warning signs.
We’ve seen How Jesus describes the kingdom of God as something that will grow miraculously so long as we share the gospel and the love of Jesus with others, we’ve learned that God will sort through those who miss the point, or who dont react well to the gospel, its not for us to bring judgement. We learned that God treasures us more than anything else, and that he is inviting us to celebrate with him as people are saved.
There is no greater celebration in Biblical times than a wedding feast. and often times the church is called the “bride of Christ”
Weddings:
A couple would be betrothed
THis often included the groom paying a “bride price”
People would receive an invitation when the couple were betrothed.
Like a save the date, without the date.
then the Groom to be would go back to his father’s house and build an addition onto the house for he and his bride to live in.
He has to build her a house. “prepare a place”
Once the Groom’s father said the place was ready the groom would go pick up this bride and bring her back to his fathers house, with her brides’maids and her family.
The Bride’s father would give her a dowry to provided her and her husband a little extra to start their lives together.
Invitations would be sent out again to tell people to show up.
They would celebrate for a week.
Family and friends would come and go during this week.
with that context in mind, lets look at some of the parables that surround a wedding feast in the Bible.
English Standard Version (Chapter 14)
14 One Sabbath, when he went to dine at the house of a ruler of the Pharisees, they were watching him carefully.

7 Now he told a parable to those who were invited, when he noticed how they chose the places of honor, saying to them, 8 “When you are invited by someone to a wedding feast, do not sit down in a place of honor, lest someone more distinguished than you be invited by him, 9 and he who invited you both will come and say to you, ‘Give your place to this person,’ and then you will begin with shame to take the lowest place. 10 But when you are invited, go and sit in the lowest place, so that when your host comes he may say to you, ‘Friend, move up higher.’ Then you will be honored in the presence of all who sit at table with you. 11 For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.”

This is pretty straightforward, Jesus is having dinner at a pharisees house, its a big deal and there are many people invited, Jesus is instructing his disciples saying to not seek places of honor, because it is better to start humble and be exalted, than to try and exalt yourself and be humbled.
Church it is better for us to humble ourselves in any circumstance, rather than try and exalt ourselves
In the celebration of the kingdom of heaven

12 He said also to the man who had invited him, “When you give a dinner or a banquet, do not invite your friends or your brothers or your relatives or rich neighbors, lest they also invite you in return and you be repaid. 13 But when you give a feast, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind, 14 and you will be blessed, because they cannot repay you. For you will be repaid at the resurrection of the just.”

He then turns to the pharisee, and says that it is better to do good to those who cannot repay, because God will repay you in heaven.
If you love only those who love you, what reward is there?
If you are only kind to people becuase you know they can do something special for you, you recieve your reward, but when you are kind to those who cannot repay you, God will reward you.
Jesus is saying that in the kingdom of God, in contrast to life on earth, the rewards come from being kind without expecting anything in return, and by humbling ourselves, which means treating others better than ourselves.
Failure to do these doesn’t mean that we dont get to heaven, It just means we dont get as many rewards in heaven.

15 When one of those who reclined at table with him heard these things, he said to him, “Blessed is everyone who will eat bread in the kingdom of God!” 16 But he said to him, “A man once gave a great banquet and invited many. 17 And at the time for the banquet he sent his servant to say to those who had been invited, ‘Come, for everything is now ready.’ 18 But they all alike began to make excuses. The first said to him, ‘I have bought a field, and I must go out and see it. Please have me excused.’ 19 And another said, ‘I have bought five yoke of oxen, and I go to examine them. Please have me excused.’ 20 And another said, ‘I have married a wife, and therefore I cannot come.’ 21 So the servant came and reported these things to his master. Then the master of the house became angry and said to his servant, ‘Go out quickly to the streets and lanes of the city, and bring in the poor and crippled and blind and lame.’ 22 And the servant said, ‘Sir, what you commanded has been done, and still there is room.’ 23 And the master said to the servant, ‘Go out to the highways and hedges and compel people to come in, that my house may be filled. 24 For I tell you, none of those men who were invited shall taste my banquet.’ ”

The man says “blessed is everyone who eats bread in the kingdom of God” He’s challeneging Jesus, saying, as long as i am invited to the party I am blessed.
Jesus turns this assumption on its head.
THose initially invited, if they give some excuse, miss out, and are uninvited.
But the banquet still needs filled, so they invite everyone else, to come in and eat all the food that was prepared.
THis parable is often misused and misunderstood.
It is easy to make a claim saying “the peopel intitially invited were the Jews.
But they rejected the gospel so now God seeks to bring in the Gentiles.
And now that the gentiles are here God is sending out missionaries to reach anyone he can.
This assumes that the Church has replaced the Jews/ Israel as God’s chosen people and church that is incorrect. That kind of mindset leads to antisemitism, and helps create the problems we see today.
THe church did not replace israel, rather we were brought alongside ISrael, grafted into the covenant that God made through israel.
So who were those intitially invited? In this context Jesus is talking with pharisees, the people who tried to keep from breaking God’s law, that in the process they forgot to follow the law.
the religious leaders, those who exalt themselves, in exalting themselves, and their own concerns they miss the wedding feast!
THey are then replaced with the poor, crippled and lame.
Church: let us never get to busy trying to live godly lives that we forget to show God’s love to those who need it.
Those who are too busy with their own concerns, those who cannot be bothered to help others, those who sit and judge others rather than
This parble is also told in matthew, but it has an extra bit on the end

11 “But when the king came in to look at the guests, he saw there a man who had no wedding garment. 12 And he said to him, ‘Friend, how did you get in here without a wedding garment?’ And he was speechless. 13 Then the king said to the attendants, ‘Bind him hand and foot and cast him into the outer darkness. In that place there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’ 14 For many are called, but few are chosen.”

Here their is an addition that even those who come to the wedding feast, that if they do not come with the proper respect will get tossed out.
Church: We are called to join in the wedding feast, and to bring in all that we can, especially those who need to be shown mercy. And we are called to respect God enough to come to the feast, properly dressed.
What does that mean?
If we look further we see that the church is often describes as the Bride of Christ

Then I heard what seemed to be the voice of a great multitude, like the roar of many waters and like the sound of mighty peals of thunder, crying out,

“Hallelujah!

For the Lord our God

the Almighty reigns.

7  Let us rejoice and exult

and give him the glory,

for the marriage of the Lamb has come,

and his Bride has made herself ready;

8  it was granted her to clothe herself

with fine linen, bright and pure”—

for the fine linen is the righteous deeds of the saints.

9 And the angel said to me, “Write this: Blessed are those who are invited to the marriage supper of the Lamb.” And he said to me, “These are the true words of God.”

the “fine linen” the wedding clothes, are the righteous deeds of the saints.
church to make the most out of the celebration that God is doing, we need to be doing righteous deeds, good works, for the poor and the lame, the widows and the orphans,
a righteous deed is something we do for others with no thought of repayment.
First we humble ourselves, recognizing that we are no better than anyone else, and that we ought to treat other better.
Then we seek to help those who cannot repay us, the homeless, the poor, the lost. And we dont seek a reward.
Church do something nice for those around you this week, don’t expect anything in return.
This is how we live righteous lives, by showing mercy to those who need it.
God invites us all to join in the celebration! He wants as many people as possible to be with him. But God does not have time for those who do not have time for him, and God does not want those who ignore the needs of other to be at his feast. He opens wide his gates to the outcasts, the poor, the needy. Church let us open our arms wide to them as well.
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