Baylor University psychologists questioned 3,539 married couples to determine what couples argue about. They discovered that although arguments involve many different topics the tension that sparked the arguments “almost always involved deeper issues relating to whether the partners felt understood or valued.”
Scientific American says “all fights come down to two basic issues that have little to do with the content of the arguments: One person feels that he or she is being unfairly controlled or feels neglected.”
--The Week, July 16, 2010 p. 21 Illustration by Jim L. Wilson and Rodger Russell
Ephesians 5:33 (ESV) However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.