In his book, The Witness of Preaching , Thomas Long writes, “Part of the ethic of Christian worship is giving up the idea that every sermon, every prayer, every hymn must be focused upon me and my needs.”
-- The Witness of Preaching, p. 153-4
It isn’t about us. Not our tastes, preferences or desires. Worship is all about God.
1 Chronicles 16:29 (ESV) Ascribe to the LORD the glory due his name; bring an offering and come before him! Worship the LORD in the splendor of holiness;