Relationships - Part Three - Respect Yourself

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God is good. So we going to continue on with our series intitle relationships. And today we going to talk about respecting yourself respecting yourself because you can't be in a relationship worthwhile. Unless you respect yourself. Amen. And the last couple weeks we've been dealing with situations where you got to know who you are to be in any type of successful relationship a man. If you don't know who you are you you cannot be the best person that you can be in any relationship until you end up giving only park or little bit so you have to know who you are where you came from who you belong to and where you going in order to have a successful relationship in and we found out last week that the first relationship that we have to have is our relationship with God Amen. That's number one and then the second relationships that we really have to work on other relationships with each other because it was until we get the relationships with each other right then this whole thing is just going to go crazy in the end. We see what's happening now in the world, that's because we don't have a healthy relationship with each other. Number one. We don't trust each other a man and I am talking about folks here. You know, it's always been a man who ever the collective DNR and they and I'm always say them and they and I'm like, can you introduce me to them? Amen, and so today I want to talk about the importance of self respect. And if you were here earlier, we played the the song you remember that old Staples singles singer song If you don't respect yourself ain't nobody going to give a hoot. You know, there's some reality that if we don't take care and respect our selves nobody is going to care any kind of way and have us doing any kind of thing and a man cuz we won't respect ourselves. So so let's do this. Let's go to are foundational scripture, which is going to be in Mark chapter 12 beginning with verse 30 Celeste and let's put that up there Mark chapter 12 beginning with verse 31 from the Amplified translation because there's there's a lot more to it when we read it from there so together and you shall love the Lord your God out of and with your whole heart and out of and with your soul your life and out of love and with all your mind with your faculty of thought and your moral understanding and out of and with all your strength this The first and principal commandment. The second is like it and is this you shall love your neighbor as yourself. There is no other commandment greater than these amen. And so we going we going to read our confession of Faith together. Keep standing out young chairs.

I'm just kidding. I'm just kidding. Alright, I confession of faith. I'm not move. By what I see. or by what I feel I am moved by what I believe. I believe the word of God the victory is mine. I have it now. I can see it. Through The Eyes of my face In Jesus name amen. You may be seated in the presence of the Lord. So tell your neighbor we got to learn how to respect yourself.

That's really important in the in the text. The Bible gives us two Commandments. Number one is to love God with all our heart soul and strength and then to love our neighbor as we love ourselves. And then then in that second piece, there's two parts that I've number one is you got to love your neighbor, but you can only love your neighbor as you love yourself, right? And so if you can't you can't love anyone if you can't love yourself a man and so starting love starts with respecting who you are, you know, if you don't respect you you aren't you there is no way you can get anybody else to respect you. You know people clinging for people to give them recognition and honor and respect and they don't respect themselves a man. And so I'm hoping that by the end of this this teaching this this message here that it will trigger each and everyone of us to think about places where we have not given ourselves the kind of respect we need and we're expecting other people to do it for us. Does that make sense? So the word is calling us to love our neighbors and then love ourselves and all of this is really contingent Upon Us loving ourselves right now not when I talk about lovers in love ourselves, you know, I'm not talking about you know, that that the new age stuff that's out there. I'm not talking about that. I'm talking about loving ourselves. The way God loves us a man doing the things that God would has created and plan and purpose for us to do and not doing the things that the world wants to do wants us to do because the world is designed the terrorist down. Hey man, it's so I something there's a lot of stuff I can do in life. There's a lot of stuff I can do that mean is good for me. A man. I have I have the ability to do amazing things. Don't mean that's going to work for me. It's all I have to look at myself in the position in the and what God has placed me and say, okay. What is it that I'm going to do that will show myself love and my self-respect so that I can Garner it from other people. That makes sense. God has called us to love our neighbors. I'm having a hard time loving somebody who don't look like me act like me talk like me and walk like me because I don't love myself. I want to find fault and then when really I need to deal with myself a man and I have a hard time loving God if I don't love myself. So we all run around talking about I love the Lord. He heard my cry and pitied every groan.

So, how is it that you can love God and you don't love yourself? Why would you put yourself in situations and circumstances that show disrespect for who you are and then turn around and say I love Jesus.

Can we get this thing real because. Watching us and they're watching what we doing safe and they're modeling whatever we do and say nothing and becomes generational.

It's all I hear all these cliches from Falls. I love the Lord. He heard my cry all of that stuff and then go out and do damage to themselves and people are watching them. So they have no respect for themselves and they cannot be

Witnesses in here I know I can speak that because I was there. A man, I know when I thought I was all of this in the bag of chips. I was doing all kind of destructive things to myself and how dare I could so arrogant and say all well, you know, I love when folks to say what then why are you doing that to your temple? Why you doing that to your family? Why are you doing that to your friends? And why are you doing it to yourself? Hey, man, if so, tell your neighbor to respect myself.

If you don't if you don't respect yourself, you'll have a very hard time respecting and loving others. Hear me out here in and this is no disrespect to anyone. Here if we don't get the foundation, right? If you don't get the foundation, right, you can't move into relationship with anyone else because it's not going to work. I don't care if it's a marriage a business and neighborhood. It's not going to work.

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to make it through this journey comes from God. We go run and run. I do I said all the time. I do premarital counseling and counseling for folks and they broken because they don't love it themselves. So they expecting to come and rescue them. I need you to be my knight in shining armor, but you know what I came to United Center cuz I'm a broken night.

So we go running around looking for folks to rescue us when we won't turn to the source who can give us 100% of everything we need so we can learn how to respect ourselves and love ourselves as a people. We've been through so much and today.

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Keep going. I love it. When the Holy Spirit give me a cuz you know what? I have my look messaging to be all outline of stuff and holy spirit. Just tell me up he be like I did that for you. Now. You just go with what I'm telling Mark chapter 12 verse in the Bible says

love the Lord with all your heart. Wait a minute. He's giving us the plan here.

Put all your soul with all your mind and with all your strength. That's the first commandment we running around trying to figure out what God wants to do. Boom right here go back. I'm sorry with all your heart all your soul all your mind and with all your strength and see God is not going to accept your 50%

Do you want to give the world everything and then God give God what's left over? The Bible clearly says love the Lord your God with all. I ain't got time for drama when I'm giving God my all.

That's out there. Do I have any Witnesses here? But you know you have time for when you ain't giving him your all I can make time for all kind of mess cuz I got space for it cuz I'm not giving God my all amen. He says that's the first commandment that's enough to keep me busy right there. The second one is like this. Love your neighbor as you love yourself. What did I got to do some work? I got an issue here most of us all of us but most of us have so much negative self-talk in our minds that is

We can dress it up or we can make it look good. I can spray enough cologne on me to make people be like, you smell good. But on the inside. Where is that's where God can see. I'm broke. I can't love myself. And here's the thing if we stop for a second, we all screaming out. screaming yelling

We just keep walking past behind and. Screen if I don't love myself screaming, I'm hurt. I'm depressed. I'm down. I don't know how to love you cuz I can't love myself and we ignore it all. Because we're in the same boat. Can you help you cuz I can't help myself. a man Donald got quiet on me. I hope this is helping you to think in my family is screaming at me right now saying I'm having a problem loving myself, and I'm ignoring them. What shall what grantwood matheran wasn't what neighbor one brother and one sister is screaming loud. I'm going through and we just like well, you better get it together. I don't have time for you and they're screaming at you.

Screaming help me. Don't you see what I'm doing to myself? Don't you see how I'm going to scream for help so I can't love you. I can't give you what you need because I need does that make sense?

Bible says love your neighbor. I had and also respect your neighbor as yourself and there's no greater commandment than those two. Keep going.

The second greatest commandment in the Bible is a commandment to love us and has these two parts. Love your neighbor. as yourself Love your neighbor as yourself. Keep going. In Matthew chapter 16 verse 24 in the Bible says that Jesus went to work on his disciples. Listen to this anyone who intends to come to me as to let me leave.

For those of you who didn't know you the church. Amen. This building is not the church. No, no, no Tempo. No Sanctuary no church building. You going to a place where?

So God is saying if you come be with me, you've got to let me leave.

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Jesus you my Lord. and my safe When you get your lord when things are going well, can I keep this thing real? Amen? Can y'all handle some real word? Not this not the stuff that makes you feel good, but the stuff that's going to make you think and a long can you handle that? The Bible says anyone who tends to come with me has to let me leave you're not in the driver seat. I am don't run from suffering embrace it follow me and I'll show you.

The challenges most of us want everything easy. We want to be comfortable with everything we do I don't want any problems. That's why I come to church or wait a minute. I'm confused cuz you don't want no problem. You say Jesus as your lord and savior, but you go on in the world and creates havoc in your life. Help me understand. What do you really want? Cuz you can't have it both ways. You either want Jesus to leave or you going to leave? Make up your mind.

Which one is it going to be what Jesus Lead you or you going to run the show? a man keep going Then Jesus said to his disciples whoever wants to be my disciple and see again. I tell you there's a difference between a church-going in the in the follower of Christ. Or just come here go through the motions and leave and has it had no effect. When you a disciple of Christ you following you seeking after him you want to know who is. And you spending time with him? Hey, man, that's why I said he didn't say whoever wants to go to my church. Because whoever wants to be my disciple. Now and here's where it gets hard. You can't just do you no more. imma, do me I'm just going to do me. It's all about me. Can't nobody Judge Me Only. God can judge me. Well, he just judged you. Hey, man, you got to deny yourself a man. You can't have everything that's out here cuz it ain't all good for you.

He said you must deny yourself take up your cross and follow me. That means he's leading us and he's leaving us to love him with all our heart all our soul all our strength all our money and to love each other. That would never be drama inside a church.

Probably won't be too busy. Loving each other. We would be too busy trying to make each other feel better and be better as opposed to turn each other down.

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How we can build them up? Does that make sense? The only way we can do that as if we allow Jesus to lead us. I'm telling you I can sit here and give you a bunch of platitudes. I could tell you how grateful you I am for you coming to church and I am. Don't get me wrong. But if that don't change your life when you leave up out of here, I've done nothing. The word should penetrate the word to change the word to make you think the word should challenge you. It should not be where you sit in the midst of the word being told to preach and it has no effect on you.

Through the Bible says we must deny ourselves and take up crosses and

you know what Mike Ross is I'm selfish. I'm angry. I'm hurt. I've been abandoned. They lied to me. They don't I don't trust them pick that up and follow Jesus.

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And maybe doing it baby blessing my so a man. Keep going. Keep going. You can begin the lover expect yourself when you understand your importance to the kingdom of God.

Have you ever been in the situation where they would people were trying to choose 14 and you never got chosen? What God has chosen you you're on his team? You are important to the kingdom. So what you do has an effect.

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So you may be part of this Kingdom.

The part of this King where part of each other we're family. We're brothers and sisters in Christ. No, you just not my brother here from 9 to 11 you my brother and sister all the time. I can't just you know deny you when I see you when I mean I can only accept you when you're here except you all the time. Who was Steve Austin and when we see him at church and it's cool, but then went out in the street.

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In first John chapter 4 beginning with verse 19 talking about this. Love thing. disrespect we love because he first loved us. The ending of our cells we are selfish individuals. self-centered all about me What you put look at what's happening in the world? I get mine and you have to get yours. I'm not necessary trying to help you get yours before I get mine would get mine first and then you get your but he turned the script upside down. He says I'm going to show you how to Love by first loving you. I see sometimes he loved us even when we were in the midst of our drama. Y'all know what that feels like when you were in the midst of your drama when you were in the midst of your worst time when you thought nobody else will accept you guys still.

And he continues to love you, and there's nothing you can do about it when people talk about you when they cut you off when they treated you like you were crap and dirt. God still loves you. Because I'm in your worst day. I'm going to show you I love you. When when you think nobody else will I will I'm going to love you and I will love you through whatever you going through.

And then he says you can love. Because I first loved you.

You can respect yourself. Because I first respect that you. I didn't treat you like the world treated you I didn't kick you out. I accepted you as my child. Someone I love and that's what God is calling us to do for each other. Does that make sense?

Whoever claims to love God get this yet hates a brother or sister. Is a liar.

You know all them people who done ticked you off and you mad and you trying to hold on to that hater Let It Go.

Let It Go You holding on the past hurts and you holding on a past disappointments and you holding on the past lies? And you say you love God and you don't want to be around them and you can't stand them and you did this. Did they let it go?

Because the Bible says if you claim to love God and you hate a brother or sister.

And you know what? You can't christianize that you can't holy roll that you can't do that the Bible calls us as it is. If you say you love God and you sitting around somebody I can't stand I hate that blah blah blah, whatever it is the Bible calls you a liar. And the truth ain't in you. For whoever does not love their brother and sister whom they have seen cannot love God. He may have not seen. so all running around talking about I love the Lord and hateful to my family.

So you don't nobody want to hear that tell me how I can get black Pastor. Tell me how I can get blessed. Will you can't get blessings God is calling you a liar?

Can we keep this thing real?

There's some work we all have to do I can't justify holding on the stuff that God called when God calls me a liar. I want to let that go because if I say, I love God, I hate somebody you seen and love me and you ain't never seen me.

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And he has given us this commandment anyone who loves God must say much. They also love that brother and sister. Maat also if you love God, you must also love your brother and sister didn't say well, you know what they hurt me and I ain't gone never forget what they did in that doesn't and I'm holding on to what the past in is it what does blocking you from loving them? So you put this stipulation if you don't ever do that again, then I might like you. Oh I said I like them but I don't love them or I love them because the Bible tells me to that ain't love.

Then we going to do this thing. We got to be in all the way. The most churches is teaching us how to be in part of the way. You can just do the religious part and you can be whoever you want to be and do whatever you want. It's not what the Bible says.

We got everybody running around no wonder Christianity and so confused. Everybody's running around doing whatever they want to do because and nobody don't want to call. Can you imagine if we came together and love on one Accord the work that we can in this?

Is this making sense? Look at that loving yourself is directly connected to loving God. So you can't tell me you love God, when you doing the stuff to yourself that you doing when you disrespected yourself when you disrespecting others when you're when you're doing the things that God is That's Country. The guy that is not about love. I read this article about messy people.

And and without getting into a lot of it the article said Generations msep.

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y'all pray for me right now cuz I'm going to keep this thing real if I live at home. And my mama messy. Guess what? I'm going to be. Messi find it home. My dad is a liar. Just want to learn to be. Whatever, is that home? 9 times out of 10 is don't have some direct or indirect effect on you. It's so now I take messing us that I've learned. And I get married to somebody else's learn Messi and we have children. That's what they gon learn to be.

You see why we got messing Us in this world. That child in just wake up and say oh I'm going to be gossiping and imma be a lie. They learn this.

amen Nobody wants to deal with that. They want to blame it on education and Society. How about we go home and find out what home was like If there's no trust at home, guess what Imma learn to be a person who doesn't trust. a man

So if I don't love myself and how I learn to love myself is how I see God loving me a man and I create that environment in my space. Guess what the people in my space going to feel when they come into my face? I don't feel loved. amen So you got to check yourself. You got to look at yourself. Remember? I talked about the mirror the mirror don't lie. You got to look at yourself in the mirror and say when people see me. Do they say iMessage? How do you say I'm a liar? No more importantly am I messy? annamalaiyar do I love myself?

Are you doing you know, like they did in the Old Testament? They just put a covering on the sand. What's the Jesus came and he just he smashed that thing a man? That's why we don't have to go in and end in sacrifice bulls and goats anymore. He looked at the mirror and said I don't know I got to deal with all of this. And you know most of our stuff we deal with the surface part of the week never get to the root of it. amen Loving yourself more loving ourselves directly connected to loving God. You cannot truly love that.

a man if you don't want to hear that because they always want to hear what somebody else is doing it and how somebody is Way start with u, Look in your own mirror. Everybody's looking at everybody else's Mary figuring out they problems.

I love God. Hey, man, keep going. I'm almost done. Yeah. Important have love and respect towards yourself. a man It's important. It's important. Keep going. I got a lot a lot of this now in Philippians chapter 4 the scriptures on the program, but

We talk about love, right?

I can do all things. I can do all this through him who gives me strength. You know what? It's going to take God to give me the strength to love myself.

It's going to take God to give me the strength to be disciplined enough to not do the things that I know are different mental to my self-respect.

But I can do all things. The King James says through Christ who gives me strength. So it is possible email Isn't it is possible for us to create a space where we really love each other. In your home in your neighborhood on your job. Would you like Catalyst of showing true love because you understand that God loves you and then whatever you have to do to get yourself a man you not somebody else. We too busy pointing at other folks and not deal. When you get yourself together self-respect here. Then you can start the process of Allowing. God to love you. Is that make sense? Keep going.

Paul diss key to success was he had self-respect if you ever read and I would say going green Paul wrote most of the New Testament go over here at self-respect. He knew who it was from remember, but he's not the number one, but one of the top Lynch men's for Christians before Jesus knocked his butt off that horse and blinded him and gave him a new vision. Now, I would say that's to all of us don't let Jesus have to knock you down before you get to see right?

Why do we all have to go through drama in order to get it, right? If you see it around you see it ain't good. Why do you have to go? I need to touch it to do you know me?

He knew what his purpose was. We forgotten what are purposes. We trying to fit into a mold that is not built for us. We're trying to fit into a worldly mold. When we Are Spiritual christ-followers. It's not going to work. You can't be the person that's over here and also the stucco work. Come on, y'all how many people you think successfully play the role where they can be all of this in the world and all of this in the church. You got to give. They either they don't they don't say you fake on the church going to say you say which one? a man I'm just keeping this thing really a man cuz we got work to do we got folks in our family and our communities who are hurting and we have nothing to tell them. We have nothing to tell them because we don't know what to tell them because I'm so tired myself for once I can get my stuff together. Then I can tell you about the love of Christ. I can tell you how Jesus love me and I'm next of all.

I love you because God loves you.

So I just keep to myself. I'm just going to keep to my little world. And imma do me and I'm getting my little circle and we just don't do each other. I never called you to stay in your little circle. He called you to go out. And how dare we get comfortable with just a little circle with us all around us are hurting people that we say. We love going straight to hell cuz you haven't told him to God.

When you got to be ready for this. But if you want something that's just going to make you feel good about you continuing and you'll see if this ain't the place.

There's a bunch of charges. I can point you to that. I'll tell you what you want to hear.

amen Keep going. People like I ain't coming to get yelled at I need something that's going to make me feel good. Let me tell you woke up this morning. That's enough to make you feel good. Amen. You don't understand my problems. You got the victory right there. I got Finance, but ain't nothing like Jesus can't handle if you turn it over to him.

So why is it that we don't like I said. Yeah, I mean, I like myself you don't understand. You ain't talking to me.

By virtue of the fact that you responded like that in your mind. You're the first person I'm talking to.

amen Amen, you don't know me. You don't know nothing about me. You don't know my story you don't shut up.

Now y'all can't see this but it is a bunch of stuff here is why we have challenges really loving myself personal failures. We've all messed up. We all have a man but some of us stay in that space. So messed up. Amen. criticized by folks abused by folks disappointed by folks will have been there to some extent. Others that are still not accepting you. amen lack of faith in God

follow another folk, since they feel that way. I'm going to feel that way and you know, that's not how you feel.

We all want to be important to somebody amen. So we do this stuff to try to feel and think that and be important, you know, we say stuff and we get it. We always we want people to recognize us and when they don't then we feeling bad. Can I be can I be honest with y'all just real transfer. I was talking to a pastor friend of mine and I have to be I had to come be very honest and transparent with him. So when I started in Ministry many years ago, I had this this desire I would go to these conferences and I go to these places cuz I wanted someone to come up to me some profit or some some person who was spiritual and come up to me and say will you the one I mean, I'm serious. I I I I desire that so much I wanted to I would position myself and placed myself in the situations where I was hoping people would say. Oh, you're the one I've been waiting for. You know, I I mean I had this fantasy of being that one and it never happened. Nnnn, and so I used to think and no one would know this but I used to think of myself. Now this thing what God called me to do because nobody is pointed me out as being the one A man and so I don't know if you've ever been through anything like that where you wanted someone to recognize you and you wanted to be important you wanted to be special but here's what I came to realize. I am special. I don't need no man. No woman to tell you. This guy is already using me and God is using me to the fullest in the in the place that he wants to use me a man and it took me to really look in the mirror and say, you know, I was running after something that God never intended for me to have It so you have to look at yourself and say what is it that you probably running after trying to get people to recognize you people to say this about you people to lift you up there to make you feel important and it hasn't happened so you don't feel good about yourself. I'm telling you this stuff is reeling in the prom with the church as we not dealing with the real issues that people are dealing with. We're not dealing with Dylan and I love y'all know. I'm a big Faith person. I love Faith and I love God and I love grace and mercy and all those things but some folks just got issues and we got to deal with the real issues cuz they can't hear you talk about faith in faith and grace and mercy if they going through problems amen. So let's deal with the problems.

Got to learn disrespect myself in the love me.

a man All right. Keep going. I got 3 minutes. How do we learn to love ourselves? You going? I should ask you that question. So, how do you

Then what his wife. Now, this is just just me first that accept God's love for me. I just got it. a man First loved me he loved me you love me first and I just got to accept that I am love I keep looking for love in all the wrong.

Yeah, I know y'all been there. first one to get to the club

I have to run to leave hoping they don't turn the lights on in a looking for love in all the wrong places a man.

Then the second thing is I think once we accept love God is love God loves us. We got that begin Express that love to each other a man instead of mean Muggin folks about receiving them with open arms. How about finding out the good that they're in as opposed to the bath? Amen about expressing some of that love that God has given to you and giving it to someone else a man and then some of us shall we got a release ourselves from the past? The past is holding us back. Yeah, you messed up. But that's in the past Let It Go Amen Let It Go you holding onto stuff and holding on to what people did to you in the past or didn't do to you and the pastor say it again say Let It Go, amen I keep going.

In Romans Chapter 4 verses 5 through 86 but people are counted as righteousness not because of their work, but because of their faith in God who forgives say the word Center. Who forgives Sinners? That's that's a man. So if we can't.

David also spoke of this when he described the happiness of those who are declared righteous without working for it man. Once I realized the grace that God has given me because as a center, he still loves me. How could I not share that love with somebody else? Amen, I didn't deserve it but God still loves me a man. So now I can walk different. I can talk different I can act different I can think different because I can do it from a place of love a man as opposed to a place of jealousy or angry man. Keep going. Bible says oh what a joy for those who whose disobedience is Forgiven whose sins are put out of sight? Yes, what joy for those whose record the Lord has cleared us in I have a clean slate. Can you imagine what the what happens when you get a clean slate to get to start over? That's what happens every morning new Grace and new Mercy we get to start all over again. Let the past go to bring our past into our presents and into the future. You got to let the past go up when you wake up in the morning Queen's Right. I got up.

day full of grace Bring that back into back to the God is forgiving me for that too. Many people trying to bring other folks drama back into a life. Amen. Google God chose to forgive you. Can you accept?

That means you got to forgive others.

Can you accept that?

Can you leave the past in the past? amen he going you know what he's going to do. I'm going to stop right here because if I go down this route y'all going to be here this it was so good to me. I kept going and it's all about Abraham. I'll pick it up next week. Is that okay? Is that okay? I'll pick up next week now and you coming into church. The worship service here in the praise. Feeling the love in the fellowship getting the word and not doing something with it. They man. So here's my challenge to you. I want you to read Mark chapter 12 2 verses 30 and 31 get up in the morning. Whenever you get up and read it daily readings daily. Read it daily. I'm not asking a lot but I tell you if you read the Scriptures Daily you getting your spiritual food. Amen. You cannot let this world snacks that time from you get up read it daily. Identify one person family member who ever share your testimony as to why you follow Christ. I mean we can share everything else right? You see a good movie and eat some good food you telling everybody about it? But tell somebody why you following Christ. Why you are a Christ follower a man. Why you love the Lord why you act as your best you're trying to do everything you can to make God happy.

Amen, and then I I want and I challenge everybody to get involved with a Ministry a project at UCF. Especially we have a Easter team that cuz I'mma tell you I meant ladies I'm I'm sorry. I don't mean just mad you like Easter is an amazing time for us to go out. and share Who We Are cuz we know all kind of phones come to church on Easter. Right? So we got to be ready to receive them and some of them will be hurting and they will want an introduction of Jesus Christ that's amazing time for us to go out and share Duke do evangelism working and just share with people our testimony. And so here's what I want you to do is send your program want to start praying for us starting today for what God will do for us on Easter Sunday. I want to start praying that I pray pray. I want I want God to I want a guy to see that we're ready for him to send through those doors the hurt the disenfranchised those who who who can't forgive themselves and I want them to feel the kind of love. The Amazing Grace and love that God has given to each out to each one of us. I want them to feel it and I want to introduce them to someone who loves them even no matter where they're at. But I need all of us to be praying right now starting now. This is what starting early early enough that we can be praying for what God will do for this ministry at Easter Service. So that's the that's the challenge Tuesday night bible study for anybody who's been there on Tuesday night. Y'all know we have a good time of discussion. Amen, and we will challenge each other a man and we will push and we will correct some stuff a man if it ain't live it ain't right and it's all done out of love a man and when we leave up out of there we leave about as family amen to this day unless y'all having some I don't know anybody who's left stop all angry man and see I ain't never coming back to that Bible study cuz they crazy up in there. Just kidding. I'm just kidding. And then again invite someone to Sunday worship. If you if you are being blessed by this ministry this teaching and you know someone I know everybody tells me I'm asking people pass. I keep asking a man just keep asking keep asking limit and all we can do is be who we are He-Man all we can do a new ministry we're starting and I thank God for each and everyone of you who are here, but I will tell you I want the word to change us. Amen. I don't want to be the same follow Christ tomorrow that I was today. I want something to be said him and I want. The prick my heart because I want to be a better man of God. I want to be a better woman of God. I want our young people better be better children of God Amen. I want to be different. I don't want to be the same person in church 20 years from now that I was, you know, 20 years ago a man.

Give me the challenge some of my thoughts and beliefs. Amen. So invite someone to Sunday worship service and tell me you know, what? Hang on. I don't hoop. But he will teach the word. Amen. Amen. Keep going until we going to invite. those of you

amen And the guest of honor is Jesus Christ. And he's got a place waiting for you. He's been waiting for you to come. And what he's asking me to do is just make the introduction.

So if you're here and you have never accepted Jesus Christ as personal Lord and Savior, I want to I want to introduce you to my king of kings. My beginning and end my Alpha and Omega my my rock inside of a rocket wheel inside of the wheel everything II. It's so much that he is to me. introduce Anyone who has never accepted Christ? to my Lord So if you're here, he can make the real reason he's not going to force himself on you. He's not going to knock your door down. He said if there's a tug on your heart if there's a call on your phone to accept him as personal Lord and savior. let me let him know just let him leave until if you would what you call your head and repeat after me having a father. I am a sinner. And I need a savior Lord come into my heart. I want to live for you. I want to know more about you. And I want you to leave me. Laurel know everything But I do believe. That you died for me. So I accept you as my personal Lord and savior.

in Jesus name

Pray that prayer in your heart you crazy. You're saying not to work again everyday you have to get up. The devil is going to try to throw stuff at you and make you turn your back on God. and that's why you have to hook up with some opiate been on this battlefield for a y So if you're if that's you and you're interested in this walk of faith on your connection card, you want some more information just got on your connection car. Information about this walk of faith. And if you're looking for a church home, if you don't have a church on you don't have to battery

whatever the case maybe if this is not the church for you, I will do everything I can to help you find a Bible based Church a bible-based church, or you can worship growing cuz I'd rather have you in the kingdom of God then just out there without a place to worship a man. And so if you're here and you're interested in joining United Christian Fellowship, we invite you to come up a man come up right now. If you feel I need to to to be a part of this ministry, if not jotted on your connection card and put into a passed out. I'm interested join, but I don't feel like getting up with her. But you know, whatever it is. Just put it on there and will call.

Did you ask or make it part of the ocean? Alright, can somebody go get our young people a man? And while we doing that we going to have our ushers and greeters take our tithe and offering a man until let me tell you about the tides and offering real quick. So

the tithe is not about the amount of money. The tithe is really about obedience. Amen. And it's obedience to God Amen and it's so we've got this whole thing Twisted where folks think they giving the past the money and they come on y'all. We we smarter than that. We better than that and then the tie this to the unto the Lord a man and it's your obedience to God so that the kingdom of God can move forward a man. So whatever you give give with a cheerful heart that whatever your 10% is your 10% anything below that is offering anything above that is an offering but give what you can and ask God to bless what you're giving ask him. The multiplied asking him to take it to that his kingdom can move forward. And then pray for leadership at the church. Cuz we we are about I'm about making wise decisions about God's money a man. And so when when you give to this ministry give out of prayer, but give know that you give it to the guy. I tell everybody right now the pastor and taking a shower. I'm not taking a salary I do this right now out of my love. I hope we grow to a point where I can take a shower a man, but right now I will keep pushing and pushing and teaching and talking and preaching and given until God says so a man and I'll know when we are at a place where we where we can afford that but God has been blessing us. We're here but everybody knows ain't nothing like having your own building a man ain't nothing like having your own a man. I mean where you can go in whenever you want to we're Bound by one we can come in here. We have to leave at a certain time, you know, but God says be faithful over little a man and I believe God is is challenging us to see how we are going to be faithful and not and I tell everybody I want to leave this place. Better than it was when we got here. So when we clean up, even if it ain't if it wasn't my fault, we cleaned a man and we put stuff back in and we make sure things are taken care of cuz I want them to know that we serve God and when we serve God we take care of the stuff the blessings that he has. So if you everybody is part of helping out and putting up chairs and and putting things back and I think everybody who comes in early and sets up and then for those who put things away I thank you, but let's leave this place better than it was before we got here. Now, we know this building holds a whole bunch of different stuff we got Stuff and then we have they have all kind of vents here and you know all kind of spirits be up in here right now. And that's why we got to pray and we protect our young people and we are thank all of our beer and teachers for being out there watching over our young people so that they can have a safe place to to learn and worship a man because we all want family got to take care of each other a man. So with that in mind keep United Christian Fellowship in your prayers it man, please don't leave here and forget about us for until next week when you said who I got to go to church daily pray for us a man. Alright young people who's going to report out.

Are there prizes for back? Alright? Yeah, just let me know. I won't want to put them on blast and call him up and you know be like pasta. Why you calling me now. Alright, let's dance. West End

so this is how we close out here.

The reason it's important that we all form Circle and grab a hand is because that hand that you hold it. That's a gift from God. The hand that you hold in the devil will try to destroy. But we're here. Squeeze that hand thank you. I'm glad to hear I'm glad you here. I appreciate you being here cuz we could have done a whole bunch of stuff with this time. But you decided to come and fellowship here in sorry. I just want to pray for everyone that's in the circle father. We thank you for this gift of life. We thank you for the many blessings that you give to us. We thank you for everyone that's in the circle and into every person connected to the hands that were holding whether it's a teacher at school coach. A relative and neighbor a boss a politician the police man and woman with whoever is connected in whatever shape form or fashion. We pray for them. We cover them in the blood of Jesus. We don't want any hurt harm or danger to come and we want to show them love like never before so God. I pray that you would place in our hearts desire to show our neighbors family is world people don't look like us or talk like us or believe in the same thing more showing love father. God use us to be that to go out.

Little red light by the guy, but those were operating in darkness. Not judging Lord, but just leaving out of love father. helping those shooting in Lawrence helping those who are hungry Lord help.

helping those who are

I pray God for those who are not able to make it today that you would watch over them. And I asked God that you would add to this ministry as you see fit and we give you all the praise and glory and honor and we do that in Jesus precious name let everybody say amen. Amen. And amen you are dismissed. Alright, man. We need to put up the chairs. And and for those who are the shutdown crew. We need your help. Amen.

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