Communication is how we get to know someone , is how we fall in love , marriage , how we resolve problem , how know each other . communication is so important that for people that cannot talk we have sign language .
Talk issue , needs .
Enemines target in war is to cut your communicating line , once that is done they can distablise your army and mobilse theirs.
In realtionship / marriage the enemies always want to break it down , because if he can do it successfully , he can win.
Power of Communication : to major pit holes to avoid
Avoid common problem/ danger of communication in relationship and marriages
a. Not understanding the power of words : we live in society now where people use word carelessly ,and even in church , and it getting worse , the level of profainlity of words in our generation is alarming . the Nudeity and profaniity in prime time
From the fruit of a man’s mouth his stomach is satisfied; he is satisfied by the yield of his lips. Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.
words are nuclues , God created the world we see by the world , the power of life is in your month.every great marriage or relationship is full of positive word , every bad marriage is full of negative words ,
Words gives life and word can kill.
God has plan for you life as do satan , but here is God’s plan for your life he want to use your month to heal, build and develop everyone around you .
You can create you world with your words. you can mode an excellent relationship by your word .
Are words have the power of life and they are nuclues. you can be partner with God or the devil on the use of words.
even some people when they are born again , and you cross their path can destroy you with their words.
very negative , sacrsitic , your month is the worse things in your marriage . verbal abuse is bad and can be worse than physical abuse . it can leave a long lasting scare than physical abuse , because of nuclues effect of words .
“You have minds like a snake pit! How do you suppose what you say is worth anything when you are so foul-minded? It’s your heart, not the dictionary, that gives meaning to your words. A good person produces good deeds and words season after season. An evil person is a blight on the orchard. Let me tell you something: Every one of these careless words is going to come back to haunt you. There will be a time of Reckoning. Words are powerful; take them seriously. Words can be your salvation. Words can also be your damnation.”
matt 12: 34-
Every word will be accounted for.
5 Common mistake with word.
The word just evaporated : you are devasted by what someone spoke to you some 20 yrs ago. words don’t evaporate they are log in heaven and store in people hearth . do yo you remember the encourage in you life and people who spoke destiny over me and also remember negative words.
Words are non revealing : I did not real mean that , that is not my hearth no you did , matt: 12:33-35. it brings anger and disrepected , cutting down people, anger , sacrsities , hateful, dispresct , abuse lack of faith in God and desire to control and bring judgement . profinity . a tree is know by his fruit . your word are the reflection of your hearth.
Word are subtitionary : I can just use word and not follow thorough . you don’t show your action . word must be follow by action .
Words are powerless: I will say somethings , and doesn’t matter. the word powerful . plant response to word , your body response to word , you can curse your own body , you can speak over your body , over your relationship. you can see bloosming , grown in your children, marriage , relationship by your word of life .
Bad word will bring good result , all she need is just some scoding , some cursing out . always address issue form the positive side , don’t us this word let us call a spade a spade . let the weak says I am strong . thank you so much for loving me so much and cursing me out lol. what they say is devastated and all my passion and respect left because of the way you spoke to me . words are nuclues .
Issue 2: communication in relationship
Not understanding the different between men and women
in communication we are different ,
one of the major need for woman is communication . Communication is as important to woman as sex is important to men .