I Got Your Six

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Words Are Like Toothpaste

TOOTHPASTE EXPERIMENT W/ TWO STUDENTS
2 Tubes of Toothpaste, 2 Paper Plates, 2 Small Tables, 2 Students
Instructions: “Write a word with toothpaste, whoever has the best looking word wins!”
Takeaway: Once the toothpaste is out of the tube, you can’t get it back in. Just like our words!
Have you ever said something you immediately regretted?
1 Thessalonians 5:11 ESV
Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.
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1 Thessalonians 5:11–15 ESV
Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing. We ask you, brothers, to respect those who labor among you and are over you in the Lord and admonish you, and to esteem them very highly in love because of their work. Be at peace among yourselves. And we urge you, brothers, admonish the idle, encourage the fainthearted, help the weak, be patient with them all. See that no one repays anyone evil for evil, but always seek to do good to one another and to everyone.

Growing Up In Church

I Got Your Six

In the military, “Got your six” means “I’ve got your back.” The saying originated with World War I fighter pilots referencing a pilot’s rear as the six o’clock position.
What does having someone’s back mean to you?
1 Thessalonians 5:11 ESV
Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.

Peter has Jesus’ Six

John 13:36–38 ESV
Simon Peter said to him, “Lord, where are you going?” Jesus answered him, “Where I am going you cannot follow me now, but you will follow afterward.” Peter said to him, “Lord, why can I not follow you now? I will lay down my life for you.” Jesus answered, “Will you lay down your life for me? Truly, truly, I say to you, the rooster will not crow till you have denied me three times.
Peter’s words are easy to say because he didn’t understand the sacrifice it would take to cover his brother’s back.
It’s easy for us to say, I got your back to your friend…but what about when your friend isn’t with you. Do favor yourself over your friend?
Proverbs 16:10 ESV
An oracle is on the lips of a king; his mouth does not sin in judgment.
Proverbs 16:28 ESV
A dishonest man spreads strife, and a whisperer separates close friends.
Proverbs 16:28 ESV
A dishonest man spreads strife, and a whisperer separates close friends.
Have you witness whispers separating close friends?
Proverbs 20:19 ESV
Whoever goes about slandering reveals secrets; therefore do not associate with a simple babbler.

Deadly Poison

James 3:8 ESV
but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.
James 3:8 ESV
but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.
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James 3:8–10 ESV
but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. From the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brothers, these things ought not to be so.
Gossip is defined as discussing anything negative with someone who can’t help solve the problem.
-Dave Ramsey
Gossip is defined as discussing anything negative with someone who can’t help solve the problem. -Dave Ramsey

Gossip is Unfair

-Dave Ramsey
Gossiper - they must now toil in a problem they have no interest in solving
Hearer - now they are slanted in how they view the person being gossiped about
Gossipie - they are not given the opportunity to address the problem at hand
Matthew 7:1–2 ESV
“Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you.
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Specs & Logs

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I was always encouraged when I came to church. People would tell me how good I dressed, or how talented I am…I always left church feeling encouraged.
Log in the eye looking for a spec
Matthew 7:3–5 ESV
Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when there is the log in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.
Luke 6:39 ESV
He also told them a parable: “Can a blind man lead a blind man? Will they not both fall into a pit?
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Proverbs 26:27 ESV
Whoever digs a pit will fall into it, and a stone will come back on him who starts it rolling.

Kingdom Living...

…is Hard

Matthew 7:12–14 ESV
“So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets. “Enter by the narrow gate. For the gate is wide and the way is easy that leads to destruction, and those who enter by it are many. For the gate is narrow and the way is hard that leads to life, and those who find it are few.
It’s easy to want people to treat you right, it’s hard to treat others right.
Jesus says...”narrow is the the gate” - that means not everything can come through that gate. You’re not going to bring everything you want through the gate.

…broke Peter

John 18:15–18 ESV
Simon Peter followed Jesus, and so did another disciple. Since that disciple was known to the high priest, he entered with Jesus into the courtyard of the high priest, but Peter stood outside at the door. So the other disciple, who was known to the high priest, went out and spoke to the servant girl who kept watch at the door, and brought Peter in. The servant girl at the door said to Peter, “You also are not one of this man’s disciples, are you?” He said, “I am not.” Now the servants and officers had made a charcoal fire, because it was cold, and they were standing and warming themselves. Peter also was with them, standing and warming himself.
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Strike 1...
John 18:25–27 ESV
Now Simon Peter was standing and warming himself. So they said to him, “You also are not one of his disciples, are you?” He denied it and said, “I am not.” One of the servants of the high priest, a relative of the man whose ear Peter had cut off, asked, “Did I not see you in the garden with him?” Peter again denied it, and at once a rooster crowed.
Strike 2 & 3...

Is The Rooster Crowing?

That feeling you have when you know you are saying things about others that you shouldn’t…that’s the rooster crowing.
John 13:36–38 ESV
Simon Peter said to him, “Lord, where are you going?” Jesus answered him, “Where I am going you cannot follow me now, but you will follow afterward.” Peter said to him, “Lord, why can I not follow you now? I will lay down my life for you.” Jesus answered, “Will you lay down your life for me? Truly, truly, I say to you, the rooster will not crow till you have denied me three times.
That feeling you have when you know you are saying things about others that you shouldn’t…that’s the rooster crowing.
John 18:15–18 ESV
Simon Peter followed Jesus, and so did another disciple. Since that disciple was known to the high priest, he entered with Jesus into the courtyard of the high priest, but Peter stood outside at the door. So the other disciple, who was known to the high priest, went out and spoke to the servant girl who kept watch at the door, and brought Peter in. The servant girl at the door said to Peter, “You also are not one of this man’s disciples, are you?” He said, “I am not.” Now the servants and officers had made a charcoal fire, because it was cold, and they were standing and warming themselves. Peter also was with them, standing and warming himself.
John 18:25–27 ESV
Now Simon Peter was standing and warming himself. So they said to him, “You also are not one of his disciples, are you?” He denied it and said, “I am not.” One of the servants of the high priest, a relative of the man whose ear Peter had cut off, asked, “Did I not see you in the garden with him?” Peter again denied it, and at once a rooster crowed.
Have you been a “Peter”, where you let someone down, you specifically told you have their back?
Have you been let down by a “Peter” in your life?

Jesus' Response to False Relationship

Matthew 7:21–23 ESV
“Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’
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Jesus’ Prayer for Real Relationship

John 17:14–23 ESV
I have given them your word, and the world has hated them because they are not of the world, just as I am not of the world. I do not ask that you take them out of the world, but that you keep them from the evil one. They are not of the world, just as I am not of the world. Sanctify them in the truth; your word is truth. As you sent me into the world, so I have sent them into the world. And for their sake I consecrate myself, that they also may be sanctified in truth. “I do not ask for these only, but also for those who will believe in me through their word, that they may all be one, just as you, Father, are in me, and I in you, that they also may be in us, so that the world may believe that you have sent me. The glory that you have given me I have given to them, that they may be one even as we are one, I in them and you in me, that they may become perfectly one, so that the world may know that you sent me and loved them even as you loved me.
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Jesus gave us the Word (He was the Word)
He asked for us to be protected from the evil one
He asked for us to be sanctified (set apart, free from sin)
He asked that we be one; perfectly one
What are some ways we can be perfectly one in Fortress?

Our Quest to Be Perfectly One

What does perfectly one look like?
1936 OLYMPICS
Jesse Owens seemed sure to win the long jump at the 1936 Olympic games in Berlin, Germany. Just the year before, he had set three world records in one day. He was the record holder for the running broad jump with 26 feet 8 1/4 inches—a record that would stand for 25 years.
As he walked to the long jump pit, however, Owens saw a tall, blue-eyed, blond German taking practice jumps in the 26 foot range. Owens was nervous. He was aware of the tension created with his presence. He knew the Nazis' desire was to prove Aryan "superiority," especially over the blacks.
The pressure was overwhelming, and on his first jump Owens inadvertently leaped from several inches beyond the takeoff board. Rattled, he fouled on the second attempt, too. He was only one foul away from being eliminated.
At this point, the tall German approached Owens and introduced himself as Luz Long. Then an amazing event took place. The black son of a sharecropper and the white model of Nazi manhood chatted in view of the entire stadium. What were they talking about?
Since the qualifying distance was only 23 feet 5 1/2 inches, Long suggested making a mark several inches before the takeoff board and jumping from there, just to play it safe. Amazing! At the beginning of World War II, this model of Germany's strength was providing technical assistance and words of encouragement to a foe both on and off the field.
Owens qualified easily. In the finals, he set an Olympic record and earned the second of four gold medals during the 1936 Olympics. The first person to congratulate Owens was Luz Long—in full view of Adolf Hitler.
Owens never saw Long again, for Long was killed in World War II. "You could melt down all the medals and cups I have," Owens later wrote, "and they wouldn't be plating on the 24-carat friendship I felt for Luz Long."
We may not look the same, like the same things, go to the same school…be we are all bound together by the same thing - JESUS
It may be incredibly unpopular for you to stand up for someone, love covers all offences
Proverbs 10:12 ESV
Hatred stirs up strife, but love covers all offenses.
Proverbs 10:12 ESV
Hatred stirs up strife, but love covers all offenses.
Do you have some examples where love healed a situation?
Do you have some examples where love healed a situation?
Tell your friend...”I got your six”
Tell your second choice...”I got your six, too”

Pray for One Another

Hebrews 3:12–13 ESV
Take care, brothers, lest there be in any of you an evil, unbelieving heart, leading you to fall away from the living God. But exhort one another every day, as long as it is called “today,” that none of you may be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin.
Hebrews 3:12–13 ESV
Take care, brothers, lest there be in any of you an evil, unbelieving heart, leading you to fall away from the living God. But exhort one another every day, as long as it is called “today,” that none of you may be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin.
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