The Fruit Kindness
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22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, 23 Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. 24 And they that are Christ’s have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. 25 If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. 26 Let us not be desirous of vain glory, provoking one another, envying one another.
All Christians have received the gift of the Holy Spirit. It is by the Spirit that we are regenerated—by being birthed into the family of God. Upon that birth, the Spirit takes up residence in our life—indwelling us and becoming the earnest of our inheritance. With his indwelling the Spirit gives us spiritual gifts for the work of ministry and the building up of the Body of Christ. Also with the coming of the Holy Spirit into each believer’s life comes the Fruit of the Spirit; love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. These fruit are part of the Spirit’s sanctifying work in you life as He works to conform you into the image of Jesus Christ. He does that by creating in you a new heart and a new mind that are dominated by the same attributes that dominated our Lord’s character: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.
So far, we’ve looked at Love, Joy, Peace, and Longsuffering. This evening I want to preach on the attribute of kindness. It is considered to be one of the Seven Virtues, sometimes referred to as the Seven Contrary Virtues—because they stand as opposites of the seven deadly sins. Kindness is considered the direct opposite to envy.
Kindness comes in all kinds of forms and expressions. Kindness is as simple as a smile. Kindness is as simple as a thank you to the waitress or to someone who does a kind deed for you. Kindness is an encouraging word to someone who is in need of encouragement. Kindness is an expression of appreciation or affirmation to the people around you. Kindness is stopping and giving a helping hand to a person in need. Kindness is a word of recognition to a small child. Kindness is a sympathetic ear, that listens to a person who is hurting or in pain. These are simple acts of kindness.
I. WHY SHOULD WE BE KIND?
I. WHY SHOULD WE BE KIND?
kindness is defined as the act or the state of being marked by good and charitable behavior, pleasant disposition, and concern for others. It is known as a virtue, and recognized as a value in many cultures and religions (Wikipedia)ILLUS. The Jewish Talmud, which is the Rabbinical commentary on the Torah, claims that "deeds of kindness are equal in weight to all the commandments." In Buddhism, kindness is one of the Ten Perfections—disciplines that lead to spiritual awakening. Muhammad, writing in the Koran, says, "Allah is kind and He loves Kindness".kindness it’s a necessary ingredient in any culture and finds its fullest expression in the Christian’s character as we seek to imitate Christ
A. WE SHOULD BE KIND BECAUSE GOD IS KIND TO US
A. WE SHOULD BE KIND BECAUSE GOD IS KIND TO US
God has been so incredibly kind to usGod shows His kindness to us through what we call common grace“Yet he has not left himself without testimony: He has shown kindness by giving you rain from heaven and crops in their seasons; he provides you with plenty of food and fills your hearts with joy.” (, NIV84)the fact that we have a roof over our head, food in our stomach, cloths on our back, a steady income, friends and family, and a general sense of well-being all come from the kindness of Godthere is no greater act of kindness that God could have demonstrated toward us then coming in the flesh to die on a cross for our sins“But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared, he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit,” (, NIV84)the extraordinary sacrifice and commitment that God has shown us—out of His kindness and mercy—sets us free from the bondage of sin and death"made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved. And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, in order that in the coming ages he might show the incomparable riches of his grace, expressed in his kindness to us in Christ Jesus." (, NIV)may we always be moved when we think about how God saved us from our sin and how He provided a place for us in heavenwe need to be kind to others because God has been kind uswhy should we be kind?
B. WE SHOULD BE KIND BECAUSE WE WANT PEOPLE TO BE KIND TO US
B. WE SHOULD BE KIND BECAUSE WE WANT PEOPLE TO BE KIND TO US
the second reason sounds a little selfish, but we should be kind because we want people to be kind to usJesus said, "...do unto others as you would have them do unto you." ()we call it the Golden Ruleif you want others to treat you with kindness, then you treat them with kindness/“Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.” (, NIV84)“Love is patient, love is kind. ...” (, NIV84)the way that you treat people is often the way they will treat youILLUS. Have you wondered why people always seem to be rude to you, always treating you in a snotty kind of way? Perhaps it is not their problem. Perhaps it's you. It may be that people are snotty to you because that's the way you are treating people in life. If kindness begets kindness, then snottyness begets snottyness.if you treat a person with rudeness, they will probably respond with rudenessbut if you treat a person with kindness, they will often respond in like mannerwhy should we be kind?
C. WE SHOULD BE KIND BECAUSE KINDNESS DEMONSTRATES WE BELONG TO CHRIST
C. WE SHOULD BE KIND BECAUSE KINDNESS DEMONSTRATES WE BELONG TO CHRIST
"Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." (, NIV)ILLUS. William Penn, the founder of the Colony of Pennsylvania wrote: “I expect to pass through life but once. If, therefore, there be any kindness I can show, or any good thing I can do to any fellow being, let me do it now, for I shall not pass this way again.”the third reason of why it is important that we be kind is that kindness demonstrates that we belong to Christone of the ways we witness to the world that we are followers of Jesus Christ is when we are kind to people around us—both the saved and the lostILLUS. On Friday of this week, we will deliver presents for five families this congregation adopted for Christmas. We have classes that save up all year for this. These are acts of kindness the demonstrate that we belong to Christ.this is a testimony that God is alive and working in your lifeone of the ways we express kindness according to is by forgiving others when the mistreat us rather than retaliating against themChristians should be kind
II. HOW DO WE YOU CULTIVATE KINDNESS IN OUR LIVES?
II. HOW DO WE YOU CULTIVATE KINDNESS IN OUR LIVES?
one of the great illustrations of kindness in the Bible is the story of David and Mephibosheth found in -12he was five years old when his father and grandfather fell in the Battle of Mount Gilboa fighting the Philistineshearing of this calamity, Mephibosheth’s nurse fled with him fearing that the Philistines would seek to take the boy’s life, tooshe dropped him while they fled, and he became disabledhe was carried to the land of Gilead, where he found refuge in the house of Machirsome years later, when King David had subdued all the adversaries of Israel, he remembered the family of Jonathan, and discovered that Mephibosheth was residing in the house of Machirhe sent royal messengers there, and brought Mephibosheth and his infant son Micah to Jerusalem, where they resided from that point onthere are several things that this passage teaches us about kindness
A. A KIND PERSON IS SENSITIVE TO OTHERS
A. A KIND PERSON IS SENSITIVE TO OTHERS
a kind person is a sensitive person who is aware of the needs of the people around them, not just themselvesa kind person is a person who is attuned to the people around themI think one of the big reasons why we are not kind, is because we are so often self- focusedwe are mostly concerned about me, myself and I, my plans, where I am going, my desires, my goals, my hurt, my painthose are the things that occupy our attention and focus much of the timethe result is we don't even have the ability to see the hurt of somebody else because we are so focused on ourselvesthe Apostle Paul wrote in , "Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others."we are to have the same attitude that Christ hadChrist did not come to be served but came to give his life away, to serve othersnotice in that verse that we are to be actively looking for ways to serve othersa kind person is one who is looking for the needs and the hurts of the people around themILLUS. Think about this: Every person that you will meet throughout this week, whether a family member, someone on the job, somebody just in passing, every person that you will have contact with this week is a person in need and they need kindness. Everyone of us have hurts, struggles, pain, and difficulties. We all need kindness. We all need someone that will smile. Someone that will share an encouraging word. Someone that will be appreciative. Someone that will listen to our problems. We all need that. Every single person you will encounter this coming week needs kindness. It is an opportunity for you to notice their need and begin to meet that need by being kind.a kind person is sensitive to others
B. A KIND PERSON IS SUPPORTIVE OF OTHERS
B. A KIND PERSON IS SUPPORTIVE OF OTHERS
a kind person is one who builds people up rather than tears people downone of the ways we do that is by our words and deedsour words have an incredible impact on other people“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” (, NIV84)we let a lot of stuff come out of our mouths that are unwholesome and that does not build up other peopleILLUS. You all know the nursery rhyme "sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me"? It’s a lie. I don't know where that rhyme came from, but it’s a lie. We can recover very quickly from sticks and stone but we do not recover very quickly from names or verbal assaults.words have an incredible way of building up or tearing us downa kind person is one who is very careful of the words that come out of their moutha kind person speaks words that build and encourage rather than tear down or discourageILLUS. Let me ask you a question this evening: “If God were to give you a dollar for every kind word you speak and if he were to take away a dollar for every unkind word you speak, would you be a rich or a poor person?”the real test of kindness is not how we respond to people who are kind to us but how we respond to the people who are unkind to us, the people who are negative, the people who have hurt our feelingshow do we respond to them?that is the real testthis is why we need the Holy Spirit—to give us the fruit of kindnesswe cannot manufacture that kind of kindnessto be kind to someone who has been unkind to us is a true test of kindnessILLUS. This is what separates Christianity from most other world religions. Recently a British newspaper publisher was asked why western media is so disparaging of Christianity, but not Islam. His answer was refreshingly honest. “Christians,” he said have broad shoulders. “When you disparage them, they forgive and respond in kindness. When you disparage Muslims, however, they pick up an AK47!”
C. A KIND PERSON IS SYMPATHETIC
C. A KIND PERSON IS SYMPATHETIC
if you want to be kind, learn to be sympatheticlearn to have compassion for the needs of the people around youDavid paints a portrait of a sympathetic person in this passagehe remembers his friendship with Jonathan and wants to do something to help any of his decedentswhen he finds that Mephibosheth is alive and crippled he brings him and his son into the palaceHe ministered because of his kindnessHe was sympathetic—He had compassion upon Mephibosheth
D. A KIND PERSON IS KIND FOR THE LONG HAUL
D. A KIND PERSON IS KIND FOR THE LONG HAUL
sometimes our kindness is for a season onlywe find ourselves being kind at certain timeswe find ourselves being kind to certain peoplebut in this passage, we see David being kind for the long haulkindness is being concerned about the other person's need, and the other person's life not merely for a seasonILLUS. Philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche argued that kindness and love are the "most curative herbs and agents in human relationship".
How do you know when you’re living the Spirit-filled life. One of the evidences is when you live a life that is characterized by kindness. Kindness is to be a mark of our lives. It is a demonstration that we belong to Jesus, that we are a follower of Christ.
Let me encourage you to do something practical this evening during the invitation. Make a list of several people you can be kind to this week. Example: people you work with, people at home, people in your neighborhood, etc. Then write down how can you specifically be kind to that person. Then, sometime this week, find a way to show them kindness. Begin to become intentional about kindness. Don't just wait for the need to come and slap you in the face before you decide to be kind to somebody. Open your eyes, become intentional about demonstrating kindness to the people in your life and around you. Kindness is a great way of testifying and being a witness for Christ.